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Stop acting like your future self is some stranger.

Hello, beautiful souls. Welcome back to your souls transformation podcast.

Today we are diving into a truth bomb that’s going to shake things up for you. If you have been waiting around wondering when life is going to change or when your future self is going to magically appear and fix everything, then this episode is for you.

Because here’s the tea. Your future self isn’t some distant stranger. She’s already here waiting for you to catch up. I want you to picture the version of you that’s absolutely thriving. She’s calm, confident, glowing, and making shit happen.

Now, let me ask you something. Why are you treating her like she’s some fantasy or someone you’ll meet someday? Babe, she is you. And today we are bridging the gap between who you are now and that powerful version of yourself.

So grab your tea, light a candle if you want to, and let’s get into it. Let me ask you something. How often do you catch yourself saying, I’ll be happier when or once I have the right job, the relationship, the body, then I’ll feel good about myself.

I get it. I used to think that way too. But the problem is every time you think that way, you’re pushing your future self further and further down the road. You’re basically saying, I’m not ready yet, or worse. Like I don’t deserve that version of me yet, which is fucking crazy, right?

Like your future self isn’t hiding in 2025 or five years down the road. She’s literally sitting in the room with you right now. She’s like, hey, I’m ready when you are, but you keep ghosting her.

Let me break this down for you, OK? Every day you’re making decisions, big or small, right? And with every single choice, you’re either stepping closer to your future self, or you’re further away. And the way you show up for yourself today, that’s what builds the bridge to her.

So how can you become her now? How do you actually tap into that energy and start becoming her, or if you’re a man, becoming him now, like right now. It’s simple. You start living as if she’s already you.

I’m not talking about faking it until you make it. Well, you could do that too, has worked for me a couple of times. I mean, aligning your thoughts, your actions, and the energy with the woman you know you’re meant to be.

Think about her for a second. How does she handle stress? Does she stay calm and breathe through challenges? Like, I’m breathing every time I do a podcast, just so you know. OK.

Or does she spiral into panic? How does she really show up in relationships? Does she set boundaries with love, or does she let people walk all over her? Get really specific. What does she eat? How does she dress? How does she carry herself when she walks into a room?

Now start small. You don’t have to overhaul your whole life overnight, you know. Maybe future you drinks more water or takes herself out on solo dates and maybe she just wakes up 30 minutes earlier to journal or to meditate, like pick one thing and start embodying her little by little.

And before you know it, you’re not becoming her. You are her. And so far, if you like what I’m saying, please give us a review on podcast. We would really appreciate it and do subscribe to our podcast.

OK, moving on. Here’s where it gets controversial, OK? A lot of people are like just stuck in this waiting game. They’re waiting for the money, the love, the confidence.

Let’s be real. The version of you that has it all didn’t get there by waiting around. She made moves. Like she got uncomfortable, you know. You cannot be sitting on your chair hoping that someday the magic will happen. Nope, that doesn’t happen.

So your future you isn’t just going to land in your lap while you are binge watching Netflix. Like, love you, but it’s true. Like you have to meet her halfway. You gotta take some messy freaking action. Like I am recording this podcast today and it’s like the day after Christmas.

Like think about it. Why should I be doing this? Because that’s what I want for my future, right? I can literally be chilling, going to the mall and shopping and wasting my money over things, but no, my future self is on stages speaking.

What am I doing right now? Recording a podcast. What does that do? I am speaking, so you see what I’m saying? It’s aligned with my future self goals.

So take messy action like I said and apply for that job even if you don’t feel ready and set the boundary, even if your voice shakes. Start the freaking damn podcast even if no one is listening at first like I.

No, my first couple of episodes had no listeners, but who the fuck cares? I’m out there. I care. Sometimes I give myself a review, you know, like, great job, Dimple, because if you are not your cheerleader, who’s gonna be, right?

So she’s not perfect, she’s just bold enough to start. So here’s the kicker. To fully step into your future self, you have to let go of the version of you that’s comfortable staying small.

The old you, she’s got habits that don’t serve the life you’re building. Maybe she’s afraid to speak up or afraid to fail or holds on to relationships that drain her. Listen, you can love her and just let her go.

You know, just say, hey, I love you. You need to go. This is not, this is not serving me. It’s like shedding that old skin. It might feel super freaking weird at first, but trust me, it’s necessary.

Like growth feels uncomfortable because you’re stepping into new shoes, and guess what? Those shoes fit. I have done that over and over myself again and again.

I shifted from being a yoga instructor to a fitness instructor to then moving coaching virtually during COVID. I gave up my older relationship in my marriage just because I knew that’s not for me, even though it felt super scary in my first divorce.

But you have to understand that every time you want to grow, it’s going to be scary. It’s going to be uncomfortable. It’s going to be fearful. But you got to do it.

Why? For yourself. You don’t owe it to anyone else, you owe it to yourself.

So here’s my challenge for you this week, OK? Start small, but start now. Pick one thing that future you would do and just do it today. Like dress like her like I’m literally dressed up to be honest.

My top, I’m wearing a black tank top with like a nice coat on top. Why? Because I want to feel good. I know this is my dress when I’m gonna go on stages, right?

So I’m like dressed up in a suit right now. Dress like her, think like her, speak like her. And watch how your life shifts.

Remember, your future self isn’t out there somewhere. She’s already here, ready to take that wheel. So stop keeping her at arm’s length.

Bring her in close and let her guide you. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend who needs this reminder.

And as always, I thank you so much for being here. I’m always cheering for you, and I know your future you is too.

Until next time, stay glowing, stay growing, and step into your power. And please don’t forget to subscribe to our podcast and give us a review on iTunes.

Thank you. I love you. See you in the next podcast. Always remember, metamorphosis, not medication.

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